Roommates. We all have them. And we all love them. I can honestly say that I do love my roommates. But, let me tell you....sometimes they just make life that much more difficult. Heres what to do when your roommates are driving you up the wall:
1. Remember that we are all God's children. I'm being serious here. It helps! Pray to have the same kind of them for them that God has.
2. Serve them. Do something, it can be subtle, that shows you care. This may seem counterproductive since most likely if they're driving you up the wall they are the last person (or people) you may want to do something nice for. But it will change your perspective and chances are, they will notice and reciprocate.
3. Pray together. Apartment prayer is important, and brings everyone together. Try having it as often as possible. Maybe even share a scripture or special thought before prayer. Or, have each person in the apartment say something good that happened to them that day before prayer.
4. Try to think before you speak or get too frustrated. Imagine what it would be like to simmer down and be kind vs. freaking out and hurting feelings.
5. Compliment. Complimenting your roommates is much like serving them. But it'll give them a boost and it will make you feel good! Write compliments on sticky notes and stick them on your roommate's mirror, door, or pillow if you won't be able to see them much throughout the day or if you know they are having a particularly rough day.
If you follow these tips, I guarantee that friendships will be built and kept. And, your semester will run much more smoothly. I know that a lot of these are easier said than done most of the time (believe me, I really do know) but I also know that they are realistic and can be done. Rely on the Lord and all will be well!
1. Remember that we are all God's children. I'm being serious here. It helps! Pray to have the same kind of them for them that God has.
2. Serve them. Do something, it can be subtle, that shows you care. This may seem counterproductive since most likely if they're driving you up the wall they are the last person (or people) you may want to do something nice for. But it will change your perspective and chances are, they will notice and reciprocate.
3. Pray together. Apartment prayer is important, and brings everyone together. Try having it as often as possible. Maybe even share a scripture or special thought before prayer. Or, have each person in the apartment say something good that happened to them that day before prayer.
4. Try to think before you speak or get too frustrated. Imagine what it would be like to simmer down and be kind vs. freaking out and hurting feelings.
5. Compliment. Complimenting your roommates is much like serving them. But it'll give them a boost and it will make you feel good! Write compliments on sticky notes and stick them on your roommate's mirror, door, or pillow if you won't be able to see them much throughout the day or if you know they are having a particularly rough day.
If you follow these tips, I guarantee that friendships will be built and kept. And, your semester will run much more smoothly. I know that a lot of these are easier said than done most of the time (believe me, I really do know) but I also know that they are realistic and can be done. Rely on the Lord and all will be well!
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