12.10.2011

Dating Tips: Girl Edition

And now it's time for the ladies!!!

Full proof dating tips for girls:
1. BE YOURSELF. This is probably the most important thing to remember, and also what many girls struggle with the most. But please, please remember to be yourself. Just think, if you do actually want to eventually get married (like most girls at an LDS university), you won't be able to pretend for eternity. You will have to be yourself. So start now.
2. Give all guys at least one chance. I know, sometimes you really just don't want to go on that date. You would "never in a million years like him!" But you also never know what life can throw at ya. Just think about how nervous some guys get before asking a girl out and if, they're a good guy, the planning they may have already put into asking you out. Don't be so quick to shoot 'em down. And if the date goes bad or you just aren't feeling it, then you aren't obligated to say yes again.
3. Say thank you. Always remember to say thank you after a date. You would feel a little gypped too if you had spent money and time into someone who didn't even say thank you afterwards.
4. Smile :) "Happy girls are the prettiest girls," as Audrey Hepburn would say. There is sometimes nothing more gorgeous or attractive to a guy than a girl's smile. You can lighten up a room with a good smile, so use that power to your advantage!
5. Be polite. Enough said. When he opens your day, acknowledge him and say thank you. Don't make it a big deal either though. Let him do it!
6. Answer all his questions. And don't forget to ask your own too! Don't let him do ALL the talking. :)
7. DO look good. Are there even any questions about this? No? Good, I didn't think so.
8. Don't put too much thought into it. If you think a guy is giving weird signals, don't start immediately overreacting.
9. Do give clear signals yourself. But also be careful with them. Sometimes a guy needs to be smacked upside the head to get the picture that you're into him! But sometimes they could get the wrong idea. Be sure to know what you want so you don't lead them on.
10. Be confident. This goes along with smiling and being yourself. Don't think that a guy isn't going to go for you just because you aren't as skinny as the next girl or your hair isn't as long or you have a couple zits. Love yourself and you open yourself up to other's loving you as well. 

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